4 Reasons to Have a Friend Officiate Your ESCONDIDO Wedding

So you're engaged and wedding planning is in full swing. One of the first big decisions you'll have to make is who will officiate your ceremony. While many couples opt for a traditional religious figure or justice of the peace, more and more are choosing to ask a friend or family member to officiate their wedding. If you're on the fence about whether or not this is the right choice for you, read on for four reasons why having a friend officiate your wedding might be the best decision you make.

1. A friend can personalize your ceremony.

When you have a friend officiate your wedding, they can personalize your ceremony to include inside jokes, favorite quotes, and anything else that will make your ceremony unique to you as a couple. A traditional officiant would surely try their best to make your ceremony personalized, but they simply cannot compete with someone who has known you as a couple for years.

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2. It will save you money.

Having a friend officiate your wedding can save you a significant amount of money. The average cost of having a religious officiant perform your ceremony is on average approximately $500, while the average cost of paying for a friend to become an officiant is approximately $50-$75. If you're looking to cut costs wherever possible, asking a friend to officiate is an easy way to do so.

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3. It's more intimate.

Your wedding day is all about you and your fiancé declaring your love for one another in front of your closest family and friends. Having a friend officiate makes the ceremony even more intimate because it will feel like they are speaking directly to you. You are also more likely to feel calm and relaxed around someone who you have a more personal connection with.

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4. You can relax knowing your friend has everything under control.

When you have a close friend or family member officiating your wedding, you can relax knowing that they have everything under control. If you choose someone responsible, they will make sure that the ceremony runs smoothly and that all of the required paperwork is taken care of ahead of time. This will allow you to focus on enjoying your big day stress-free!

Asking a friend or family member to officiate your wedding comes with a lot of benefits! From saving money to adding a personal touch, there are plenty of reasons why this might be the right choice for you and your fiancé. Having a friend officiate isn’t for everyone, as there may be some drawback depending on your situation. Talk it over with those closest to you and make the decision that's best for you as a couple!


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